Strengthening Our Family

Strenthening Our Family
Family Home Evening Lesson

Opening Song: "Here we are together" Children's Songbook # 261
Opening Prayer: Child
Lesson: Mommy

What ways can we make our family strong? (be nice to each other, help around the house, prayers, scripture reading, go to church etc)

If you have gospel picture kit, show pictures of these things, family proclamation.

Why does our family need to work together, why does it need to be strong?

Object Lesson:
Using Oranges/apples or rocks (something that won't blow away) My girls used 2 oranges and they told this lovely (if not cheesy, story they made up :)
"This is the Orange family. They have a mum and dad and 5 kids. They are all nice to each other and like to help. They are kind and listen and go to church and read scriptures. They clean up and like to play together and love their family".

Then they got a hair dryer and blew on the orange. When small problems come (put hairdryer on low setting) the family still stayed together. When big problems came (high setting), the family was still strong and able to work through it.

Next family is the LID family (use plastic bottle lids or something that will blow away)"This is the Lid family. They don't listen to eachother. They seem to fight a lot and don't like to help around the house. The forget to have their scriptures and prayers and can be mean to eachother. They don't look out for each other as best they should"When problems come, even small ones (low setting on hairdryer) their family is blown away. They do not stick together. When big problems come it is even worse.

Which family do we need to be like?
What can we do better in our family to be like the Orange family?
How can we stay strong?

Activity:Make a paper chain or something symbolic of your family being joined together. Show how the more pieces of string or sticks tied together the stronger it becomes.

Closing Song: “Families can be together Forever" Children's Songbook #188
Closing Prayer: Daddy
Treat: Eat Oranges or Apples :)Have one big dessert and some spoons and all 'share' it together

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October Visiting Teaching Handout

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General Conference Activity Packet

It's General Conference time again!

We hope you all enjoy the messages from our prophet and leaders!

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Morning Session: 11:00-1:00

Afternoon Session: 3:00-5:00

Priesthood Session: 7:00 @ the Stake Center

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Morning Session: 11:00-1:00
Afternoon Session: 3:00-5:00

Internet Broadcast

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www.lds.org/broadcast

To download a children's conference activity packet to help your children stay focused and get the most out of conference,

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Getting To Know Me

Hi,

I’m Ellen C. and was called to serve as the Education Counselor a few months ago. My husband Vaughn and I have lived in this ward for over 13 years. My husband served as the bishop for six years before Bishop Harlan.

I was born in Logan, UT but lived in Walnut Creek, CA from the age of 4-13 and then moved to SLC when I was in the eighth grade. I went to Ricks College (BYU Idaho).
I met my husband at Young Adults in Salt Lake City. We were married a year later. We’ve lived in Utah, Wyoming, Colorado, Oklahoma and Texas. We have 5 children (3 boys followed by 2 girls) and 7+ grandchildren. We officially became empty nesters when our youngest, Heather was married this past April. It also gave us the distinction of having five weddings in the past six years which is my excuse for my lapses in memory or anything else that goes awry!

I worked part-time the last six years keeping the books and doing the billing for a marriage and family therapist but recently retired. It’s been great having the time to work in the temple, to try a variety of new things, get back to some old hobbies, as well as the flexibility to come and go, visit family and play grandma.

I enjoy singing, playing the flute, watching old movies, reading, and the beauty of nature.
I love…to find the humor in day to day life, chocolate, studying the scriptures, spending time with family (not necessarily in that order : ) and have recently taken up quilting with its accompanying “fieldtrips” and “shop hops”. I have decided I am a fabric “collector” that occasionally completes a quilt.

I am excited to serve in Relief Society and look forward to getting to know each of you as we work together.

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Family History Sunday School Class

A new Family History Sunday School class will soon be offered. Please let Brother Vaughn Camp (vaughncamp@gmail.com) know if you are interested. You may also CLICK HERE to go to the church web site where you may view or download the lessons and videos.

Family Home Evening: A House of Order

PURPOSE
Commit family members to make your home a "house of order" (D&C 132:8).

FOR THE PARENT

All parents hope to raise happy, healthy children who love the Lord and are willing to serve others. This is one of the heaviest responsibilities that God has given men and women. Our Heavenly Father will help us if we will seek and accept his guidance by praying, studying the scriptures, and following the counsel of his chosen leaders.

The Lord said, "Mine house is a house of order . . . and not a house of confusion." If we pattern our homes according to our Heavenly Father's guidance, we will be better parents. An orderly home is a home where parents preside, direct, and teach; where all have responsibilities and are considerate and thoughtful of each other; and where family members are knit together with love. (See D&C 88:119.)

PREPARATION
1. Have several pieces of paper that can be cut into two-inch strips as needed and a marker of some kind to write on them. You will need three or four strips per family member.
2. Have a piece of colored paper for each family member to make a poster.

SUGGESTED HYMN AND SONG
"Today, While the Sun Shines" [Hymns, no. 229].
"When We're Helping" [The Children’s Songbook, p. 198].

SUGGESTED LESSON
Begin with a game called "Come to Order." Explain that the word order means, among other things, the way in which things are placed or a condition in which everything is in its right place. Line up your family in different orders, such as the following (be sure that the father or family head is the one giving the directions if possible):
1. Line up according to age, from the oldest to the youngest.
2. Line up according to the size of feet, from the littlest to the biggest.
3. Line up according to height, from the tallest to the shortest.
When everyone is seated again, point out that to play this game, someone had to select the order, and the others had to follow that direction. Explain to your family that order comes to a home when everyone understands and carries out his responsibilities. The opposite of order is confusion. Confusion comes when people do not know what is expected of them.

We Can Make Our Home a House of Order
Heavenly Father has said that his house is a house of order. Have someone read Doctrine and Covenants 132:8.

Explain that Heavenly Father gives us directions out of his great love. If we will follow those directions, we will be happy and can accomplish all we should. He would like us to follow this same pattern in our homes so that they may be houses of order also. Through his prophets, the Lord has explained what he expects of parents and children. As always, his directions are given because he loves us and wants us to be happy. The Lord has given responsibilities to both parents and to children. In order to have a loving and happy family, each person must do his part.

Parents Have Responsibilities
Discuss with your family some of the responsibilities Heavenly Father has given parents. Start with the three important ones listed below. As you talk about each one, write each of the headings below on a strip of paper for each parent, and place one of the strips of paper on the floor in front of each parent.

Preside
- What does the word preside mean? (To give direction or take charge.)

To point out how important it is to have someone preside in any group, do the following experiment. Ask each family member to think of his favorite game. When you tell them to start, have all the family members tell, at the same time, how to play their games. After a minute, call the group back to order.

-What happened when everyone gave directions for a different game at the same time? (The result was confusion.)
- Could you tell what all the others were saying?

Point out how much easier it would have been to understand everyone's favorite game if someone had taken charge and called on one person at a time to explain his game.

Explain that Heavenly Father has given parents the job of presiding in the home because they love their children. He knows that they will try to give directions and make decisions that will be the best for their children.

While parents are equal partners in the home, it is the father's responsibility to be the patriarch, or head of the house (see Ephesians 5:23-25). If the father is not present, the mother presides no matter how old the sons are or what priesthood they may hold.

Teach the Gospel
Parents have been told by the Lord to teach their children. Have someone read Mosiah 4:14-15 and Doctrine and Covenants 68:25. Point out that having family home evenings helps you carry out this responsibility.

Be an Example
One of the best ways parents can teach their children is by example. In Jacob 2:35, Jacob points out the effect of bad example. Husbands and wives should show love and respect for each other and for their children by their actions as well as by their words.

Explain that parents are human and sometimes fail to set the proper example at all times. Sometimes parents get tired, feel discouraged, or lose their tempers. But they do love their children and are trying to be good parents though they may make some mistakes.

Children Have Responsibilities Too
Our Heavenly Father has also told us what he expects children to do in the home. Children share with their parents the responsibility of making a happy home and a house of order. Discuss the following responsibilities and make a strip with the words written on it for each child. Place a strip of paper on the floor in front of each child.

Obey
Have someone read Ephesians 6: 1. Explain that parents and children should counsel together in making family rules and decisions. If children understand why a rule is made, it is easier for them to accept that rule. When the family, under the direction of the parents, has made a rule or decision, all are responsible to obey that rule and abide by that decision.

Honor Parents
Discuss how we honor our parents. Explain that honor means to show respect. We honor parents when we follow their teachings and do the things we know they would like us to do. Read Ephesians 6:2-3.

- How could honoring parents help us to "live long on the earth?"

Point out your concern for your children's health and safety. Relate a personal experience of a time when following a parent's advice saved someone from harm, or use the following story:

Jon and Brad were admiring Jon's older brother's new bike.
"What a beauty," said Brad, 'Td give anything to be able to ride it!"
"Bob is only six like us," Jon said, "and he rides his brother's bike all over. You know, my parents have never really said I couldn't ride the bike."
"Neither have my parents, but I know what they'd say if I asked them. They'd say that I should wait until I'm older and big enough."
"Well, our parents don't need to know if we just take a short ride around the school yard."
As they rode around the school yard, they skidded on some gravel and took a painful fall that left them scraped and bruised.
After the accident, both Jon and Brad understood why their parents would not have let them ride the bike had they asked. Following their parents advice would have saved them trouble and pain.

Contribute
Explain that each family member is personally responsible to help make the family happy and strong. Children should contribute by not just taking from the family but by giving to the family as well.

- How can you contribute to the family? (You may want the family members to answer this question to themselves.)

Ask your children to name other ways they can help make your home a house of order. Write each one on a strip of paper, and place it in front of the children to whom it applies.

Conclude the lesson by telling the children how much you love them and how hard you are trying to be a good parent. Children need to hear often that their parents love them so that they will understand that directions, rules, and order in the home come from that love.

Let each family member make a poster of his responsibilities in the family. Have each child paste the strips of paper he has in front of him onto a piece of colored paper, write his name at the top, and decorate it. The poster could then be put up by the child's bed or wherever it could be seen each day as a reminder.

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What a Great Reunion!

Thanks to all of those who came to our Reunion Enrichment last night! We had so much fun getting acquainted and reacquainted with our sisters in the ward. A special thanks to the Roshella B. and the Enrichment committee for all of their hard work!

Enrichment

Come to a Reunion!

Get ready to have some fun and get to know

your sisters from the Class of the Last Dispensation!

Thursday, September 10, 2009
6:30 p.m. @ the church
Dinner will be served
Childcare available

Remember Your Visiting Teaching!

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Getting to Know Me

My name is Patrice P. and I was recently called as the ward Relief Society President. I was born in Pocatello, Idaho, and while growing up I moved frequently between Utah, Idaho, and Nebraska, finally settling in Arlington, Texas, in high school. When I graduated I went off to BYU and promptly married Allen, whom I met in an introductory geology lab. I was a freshman student; he was the graduate instructor for the course. We’ve spent most of our married life living in Houston, and the past 19 years in the Nottingham Country Ward. We have four children, all of whom graduated from Taylor High School. By profession, I am a registered nurse and spent ten years working in the operating room, and then I retired to do my favorite thing—spend time with my six (almost seven) grandchildren. Besides spending time with family, these past few years Allen and I have enjoyed working in the Houston Temple on Fridays, and of course I have fun serving in the Relief Society. In my spare time, I also like quilting, exercising, reading, and watching reruns of Law and Order.

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